Fag Hag

Recently I am enquiring why I hang around so many gay guys. Besides the fact that they are cool, dress nice, and smell good why am I so attached to them.  Anyway I am using the usage that is provided by wikipedia to help me determine why.

Fag hags are frequently stereotyped as lonely or unattractive women, sometimes overweight, who are seeking a substitute for heterosexual relationships, or who are secretly sexually attracted to gay men.^[5][6] In fact, many women who identify as fag hags are already in romantic relationships, either with straight men or with women^[6] but appreciate the alternative experience of socializing with gay men.

In interviews with gay men and self-described fag hags, the most common theme is safety.

I think safety does have something to do with it. I think I feel secure and safe with them because I know where I stand with my gay male friends.

 A rich relationship can develop between a straight woman and a gay man without sexual tension.

The fag hag relationship allows the participants to separate intimacy and sexuality. It seems that I still haven’t gotten the separtion between intimacy and sexuality, because I want to have sex with one of my gay male friends.