Does marriage means the woman have to become domestic? I have several friends who are recently married and they have become domestic. Another friend who has been married for almost ten years says that a percentage of give and take is never fifty-fifty. Sometimes it might be twenty eighty or forty sixty.
I don’t think being a home maker is a problem or degrading, but I don’t think it’s me. I don’t like eating my own cooking. I would rather take out the trash than wash the dishes. I over cook stews in crock pots for crying out loud.
But my friends seem to turn into Stepford wives on me. ‘ I have to make it home to cook dinner for my husband.’ Or ‘I’m making a cake for my husband’s office.” I simply cannot be possessed by Brie Van Da Camp.
I don’t know what I am going to do. I don’t want to dote on a man and cook for him. I don’t want to keep house. I have work and things I want to get done.
What do you guys think? Does marriage make women domestic?