Bestie has been throwing around that I have not grown up yet. Once I was going to brush it off but twice i was like what no. The truth is she is married and wants her husband to move up in ranks because he is in the air force. I commend her for that but that is not me. I could never join clubs with people I didn’t care anything about to boost my husband’s status. I care too much about my own career and status. She bakes for his office, which is cool but I am a more cake from the store gal. I wouldn’t subject anyone to my baking. So I just think we have two different opinions about what is grown up. On another note I don’t think having a husband makes you ‘grown up’, because I know plenty of people who are married who are not grown.
Another truth for me is that I am having a hard time with people taking me seriously and am wondering is this another branch of someone not taking me seriously. I don’t think I am Peter Pan. I am not stuck in the realm of Never never land fighting pirates and Captain Hook. I have taken significant steps to grow and be responsible.